UTM ?

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haaa~

suda lma xupd8.

ne suma disbbkn akak xbyr bb dya 2 bln.

heee~

so clcom xbgi connect.

ne afta dh bayar bwu bley connect blek.

suma chat x?

atcely cik aena nk gtaw ne

cik aena ingt nk blek

UTM TERSAYANG ntuk bberapa ari.

sbb ingtkan maw wt kja cket.

(humm..bajet mcm utm sblh uma je kn,)

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ada bbrapa perkara sbnrnya nk urus.

cnth cm nk tgok sal kolej yg su cik aena dh uruskn.

ckp je cik aena KU.

tpi ape pn xwt ag.

kolej SU yg uruskn.

rumah tamu bndahari uruskan.

ne meetin ehem2 yg pegi.

adoyai.

cik aena xwt ape pn.

sowi la wahai anak2 buahku.

sbb ade mslh peribadi yg xdpt dielakkan.

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ne ingt nk blek ntuk bbrapa ari.

nk bley mlm khamis ne 14 julai - selasa 19 julai.

ag pn 17 julai cik aena ada tbc konvo.

ingt nk juin jgak.

bley la wt pa2 yg patut kn.

ag pn nk tbus slh kt ehem2 sme.

xdpt g tauliah dya.

sowi ea.

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so mntak2 proposal ne approve by mak cik aena.

kalo approve so bley la pegi

heee~

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haaa~

kowg tgok x ari jmaat r2 cter TAHAJJUD CINTA kt TV3?

cm best je cik aena tgok.

citer dya mcm ksh cnta islamic je.

den ade sal perjuangan kaum wanita.

pelakon2 pn ebat.

mlm ne ade cter STANZA CINTA.

ade sowg kwn cik aena swoh tgok cter ne.

katanya bes.

so kalo mlm ne cik aena xtgok IRIS (korea drama)

cik aena tgok la cter 2.

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atcely skng ne cik aena sgtla borink dok kt umah.

yela..

dh 3 bln cik aena dok umah.

stating from 10 mei smpai la skng.

cik aena xkja.

xkuar ngn kwn2.

dok uma je.

sbb jd nurse smntara.

tpi xpela kn..

suma ne kn dgaan idop.

cik aena mmg teringin maw kuar.

maw jmpe kwn2.

tpi msa xmngizinkn.

ari 2 cik aena mmg teringin nk tgok

SEKALI LAGI.

tpi xbole pn.

xsmpt dh nk g tgok.

tpi xpela kn.

nnt mnta je kn spe2 yg donlod.

ag mudah !

sve bjet !

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hhaaa~

ckp psl bajet.

kn cik aena tgah sve bjet skng.

so td ehem2 tye la cik aena maw bli cmera bla.

cik aena ckp la bka sem la bwu bli.

ehem2 tye xnk bli skng ke?

nnt cik aena g sne dh bole gne.

peh2 cik aena ckp la.

cik aena nk kmpl det dlu peh2 bwu bli.

ehem2 ckp pulak.

gna det dya dlu.

nnt cik aena bgi la duet yg cik aena kmpl 2.

cik aena ckp.

kalo ehem2 jtawan knpom cik aena gna dh.

haha~

bkn cik aena xnk gna det dya.

cik aena rsa dya dh wt mcm2 dh kt cik aena.

sgn la cik aena kalo mcm 2.

mp2 cik aena pn dya yg kasi.

adoyai.~

byk det dya dh bgi kt cik aena.

tgok cmera ne sdgkn cik aena yg nk bli tpi kgsi suda dgn dya.

xbaek kn.?

haha~

ehem2 baek sgt.

haish~

kalo dya dh keje ke cik aena xksh pn.

ne xkje ag.

dya pn stdy mcm cik aena ne.

xpe.

slow2.

kalo ade rezeki cik aena knpom cik aena dpt pnyer polaroid.

kalo xder polaroid pn cik aena nk piano black @ instax mini 50s

bole?

heee~

ehem2...mnta maaf

salam

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ehem2 mnta maaf ea.

ntah knapa tba2 maw mnta maaf.

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haaa~

meh2 nk gtaw cket psl ehem2 ne..

personaliti ehem2.

from :

http://www.tentangcinta.com/

sagitarius

Orang nya: Fu.. yoh.. siapa dapat memang untung... Sagitarius org nya happy aje.. suka (bergembira tepok tangan sama2.. la la la..) bawa partner jalan-jalan.. Sort of adventurous.

Tips utk memikat: Sentiasa ada kan plan bila nak keluar.. tengok wayang ke? kanoeing ke? Anything asal kan jangan membosan kan...

WARNING: Jangan "u plan.. i plan lah"..'confirm tak ada plan'.

haaa~

mmg ade pn psl ehem2 ne.

ade kt mne biar la rhsia..

:P

bln islam ehem2 lahir

JamadilAwal
Dia mempunyai tingkat keyakinan diri yang tinggi. Berani dan nekad. Kadangkala melakukan sesuatu yang ***** atau bahaya. Walau begitu, keberanian dan tekadnya akan menunjukan hasil usahanya, kadangkala menemui kegagalan juga .

bln aku lahir

jamadilAkhir
Wataknya berani, dia hormatkan orang lain. Berbagai kepandaian ada padanya. Bila dia tahu dia salah atau keliru, dia mudah mengakuinya, bila dia tahu dia benar, pendirianya keras tidak mahu mengalah. Semasa kecil ibubapanya perlu mendidiknya dengan baik agak terserlah sifat-sifat yang baik itu, kerana jika betul didikannya, masa dewasa ia akan menyenangkan kedua orang tuanya.

hari yg sma : rabu !

cemburu

Sagitarius
Lelaki Sagitarius juga boleh cemburu. Namun cemburunya datang dengan cepat, pergi juga cepat. Dia selalunya cemburu sebelum mengenal pasti perkara sebenarnya. Apabila mengetahui hal sebenarnya cemburu pun reda. Tapi, apabila dia ada matlamat baru dia akan meninggalkan kekasih yang sering membuatnya cemburu.

personaliti pnjg ag lebar.

Sagittarius
Dia seorang yang suka bergaul , suka hidup yang baik dan berpoya .Dia adalah insan yang paling romantik ,Dia menarik , mudah suka bergaul dengan seorang yang suka kepada hiburan dan berjalan ke tempat tempat yang menawan .Dia mungkin berkerja dalam bidang undang -undang , agama atau politik . Tubuh badannya agak tinggi , tubuh agak langsing dan menarik semasa muda tetapi semakin berisi semakin tua .Mukanya panjang ,dahinya agak tinggi tapi sempit, hidungnya agak mancung dan ketika suka hidung itu menjadi kembang .Giginya besar .Dari segi berpakaian , dia suka memakai pakaian yang kasual dan longgar .Dia lelaki yang agak boros , dan jika tidak berhati-hati , mungkin terlibat dalam perjudian .Lelaki ini suka jika dapat berteman dengan wanita dan mudah pula jatuh hati .Tapi dia tidak suka terikat dalam masa yang panjang .Ramai lelaki berbintang sagitarius yang kahwin lebih dari satu atau lelaki yang menyimpan wanita lain .

from : http://www.paulsadowski.org

6 December 1989

Your date of conception was on or about 15 March 1989 which was a Wednesday.

You were born on a Wednesday
under the astrological sign Sagittarius.
Your Life path number is 9.

Your fortune cookie reads:
If you want the rainbow, you must to put up with the rain. D. Parton

Life Path Compatibility:
You are most compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 3, 6 & 9.
You should get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 1 & 5.
You may or may not get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 2, 7 & 11.
You are least compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 4, 8 & 22.

The Julian calendar date of your birth is 2447866.5.
The golden number for 1989 is 14.
The epact number for 1989 is 22.
The year 1989 was not a leap year.

Your birthday falls into the Chinese year beginning 2/6/1989 and ending 1/26/1990.
You were born in the Chinese year of the Snake.

Your Native American Zodiac sign is Owl; your plant is Mistletoe.

You were born in the Egyptian month of Menchir, the second month of the season of Poret (Emergence - Fertile soil).

Your date of birth on the Hebrew calendar is 8 Kislev 5750.
Or if you were born after sundown then the date is 9 Kislev 5750.

The Mayan Calendar long count date of your birthday is 12.18.16.11.2 which is
12 baktun 18 katun 16 tun 11 uinal 2 kin

The Hijra (Islamic Calendar) date of your birth is Wednsday, 7 Jumadiyu'l-Avval 1410 (1410-5-7).

The date of Easter on your birth year was Sunday, 26 March 1989.
The date of Orthodox Easter on your birth year was Sunday, 30 April 1989.
The date of Ash Wednesday (the first day of Lent) on your birth year was Wednesday 8 February 1989.
The date of Whitsun (Pentecost Sunday) in the year of your birth was Sunday 14 May 1989.
The date of Whisuntide in the year of your birth was Sunday 21 May 1989.
The date of Rosh Hashanah in the year of your birth was Saturday, 30 September 1989.
The date of Passover in the year of your birth was Thursday, 20 April 1989.
The date of Mardi Gras on your birth year was Tuesday 7 February 1989.

As of 7/7/2011 2:15:40 AM EDT
You are 21 years old.
You are 259 months old.
You are 1,126 weeks old.
You are 7,883 days old.
You are 189,194 hours old.
You are 11,351,655 minutes old.
You are 681,099,340 seconds old.

Your age is the equivalent of a dog that is 3.0853228962818 years old. (Life's just a big chewy bone for you!)

Your lucky day is Thursday.
Your lucky number is 3.
Your ruling planet(s) is Jupiter & Neptune.
Your lucky dates are 3rd, 12th, 21st, 30th.
Your opposition sign is Gemini.
Your opposition number(s) is 5.

Today is not one of your lucky days!

There are 152 days till your next birthday
on which your cake will have 22 candles.

Those 22 candles produce 22 BTUs,
or 5,544 calories of heat (that's only 5.5440 food Calories!) .
You can boil 2.51 US ounces of water with that many candles.

In 1989 there were approximately 3.7 million births in the US.
In 1989 the US population was approximately 226,545,805 people, 64.0 persons per square mile.
In 1989 in the US there were 2,404,000 marriages (9.7%) and 1,163,000 divorces (4.7%)
In 1989 in the US there were approximately 1,990,000 deaths (8.8 per 1000)
In the US a new person is born approximately every 8 seconds.
In the US one person dies approximately every 12 seconds.

In 1989 the population of Australia was approximately 16,936,723.
In 1989 there were approximately 250,853 births in Australia.
In 1989 in Australia there were approximately 117,176 marriages and 41,383 divorces.
In 1989 in Australia there were approximately 124,232 deaths.

Your birth flower is POINSETTIA

Your birthstone is Blue Zircon

The Mystical properties of Blue Zircon

Zircon helps one be more at peace with oneself.

Some lists consider these stones to be your birthstone. (Birthstone lists come from Jewelers, Tibet, Ayurvedic Indian medicine, and other sources)

Blue Topaz, Ruby, Lapis Lazuli

Your birth tree is

Hornbeam, the good taste

Of cool beauty, cares for its looks and condition, good taste, tends to egoism, makes life as comfortable as possible, leads reasonable, disciplined life, looks for kindness, an emotional partner and acknowledgment, dreams of unusual lovers, is seldom happy with her feelings, mistrusts most people, is never sure of its decisions, very conscientious.

There are 171 days till Christmas 2011!
There are 184 days till Orthodox Christmas!

The moon's phase on the day you were
born was waxing gibbous.

10 January 1990

Your date of conception was on or about 19 April 1989 which was a Wednesday.

You were born on a Wednesday
under the astrological sign Capricorn.
Your Life path number is 3.

Your fortune cookie reads:
May life throw you a pleasant curve.

Life Path Compatibility:
You are most compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 3, 6 & 9.
You should get along well with those with the Life Path numbers 1, 2, 5 & 11.
You are least compatible with those with the Life Path numbers 4, 7, 8 & 22.

The Julian calendar date of your birth is 2447901.5.
The golden number for 1990 is 15.
The epact number for 1990 is 3.
The year 1990 was not a leap year.

Your birthday falls into the Chinese year beginning 2/6/1989 and ending 1/26/1990.
You were born in the Chinese year of the Snake.

Your Native American Zodiac sign is Goose; your plant is Bramble.

You were born in the Egyptian month of Famenoth, the third month of the season of Poret (Emergence - Fertile soil).

Your date of birth on the Hebrew calendar is 13 Tevet 5750.
Or if you were born after sundown then the date is 14 Tevet 5750.

The Mayan Calendar long count date of your birthday is 12.18.16.12.17 which is
12 baktun 18 katun 16 tun 12 uinal 17 kin

The Hijra (Islamic Calendar) date of your birth is Wednsday, 12 Jumadiyu'th-Thani 1410 (1410-6-12).

The date of Easter on your birth year was Sunday, 15 April 1990.
The date of Orthodox Easter on your birth year was Sunday, 15 April 1990.
The date of Ash Wednesday (the first day of Lent) on your birth year was Wednesday 28 February 1990.
The date of Whitsun (Pentecost Sunday) in the year of your birth was Sunday 3 June 1990.
The date of Whisuntide in the year of your birth was Sunday 10 June 1990.
The date of Rosh Hashanah in the year of your birth was Thursday, 20 September 1990.
The date of Passover in the year of your birth was Tuesday, 10 April 1990.
The date of Mardi Gras on your birth year was Tuesday 27 February 1990.

As of 7/7/2011 2:07:04 AM EDT
You are 21 years old.
You are 258 months old.
You are 1,121 weeks old.
You are 7,848 days old.
You are 188,354 hours old.
You are 11,301,247 minutes old.
You are 678,074,824 seconds old.

Your age is the equivalent of a dog that is 3.07162426614481 years old. (Life's just a big chewy bone for you!)

Your lucky day is Saturday.
Your lucky number is 8.
Your ruling planet(s) is Saturn & Uranus.
Your lucky dates are 8th, 17th, 26th.
Your opposition sign is Cancer.
Your opposition number(s) is 2 & 7.

Today is not one of your lucky days!

There are 187 days till your next birthday
on which your cake will have 22 candles.

Those 22 candles produce 22 BTUs,
or 5,544 calories of heat (that's only 5.5440 food Calories!) .
You can boil 2.51 US ounces of water with that many candles.

In 1990 there were approximately 4.1 million births in the US.
In 1990 the US population was approximately 248,709,873 people, 70.3 persons per square mile.
In 1990 in the US there were 2,448,000 marriages (9.8%) and 1,175,000 divorces (4.7%)
In 1990 in the US there were approximately 2,148,000 deaths (8.6 per 1000)
In the US a new person is born approximately every 8 seconds.
In the US one person dies approximately every 12 seconds.

In 1990 the population of Australia was approximately 17,169,768.
In 1990 there were approximately 262,648 births in Australia.
In 1990 in Australia there were approximately 116,959 marriages and 42,635 divorces.
In 1990 in Australia there were approximately 120,062 deaths.

Your birth flower is CARNATION

Your birthstone is Garnet

The Mystical properties of Garnet

Garnet is used as a power stone

Some lists consider these stones to be your birthstone. (Birthstone lists come from Jewelers, Tibet, Ayurvedic Indian medicine, and other sources)

Emerald, Rose Quartz

Your birth tree is

Fir Tree, the Mysterious

Extraordinary taste, dignity, cultivated airs, loves anything beautiful, moody, stubborn, tends to egoism but cares for those close to it,rather modest, very ambitious, talented, industrious uncontent lover, many friends, many foes, very reliable.

You entered: nor aina mohd nor

There are 14 letters in your name.
Those 14 letters total to 78
There are 6 vowels and 8 consonants in your name.

Your number is: 6

The characteristics of #6 are: Responsibility, protection, nurturing, community, balance, sympathy.

The expression or destiny for #6:
The number 6 Expression provides you a truly outstanding sense of responsibility, love, and balance. The 6 is helpful and ever conscientious, making you quite capable of rectifying and balancing any sort of inharmonious situation. You are a person very much inclined to give help and comfort to those in need. You have a natural penchant for working with the old, the young, the sick, or the underprivileged. Although you may have considerable creative and artistic talents, the chances are that you will devote yourself to an occupation that shows concern for the betterment of the community.

The positive side of the number 6 suggests that you are very loving, friendly, and appreciative of others. You have a depth of understanding that produces much sympathetic, kindness, and generosity. The qualities of the 6 make the finest and most concerned parent and one often deeply involved in domestic activities. Openness and honesty is apparent in your approach to all relationships.

If there is an excess of the number 6 in your makeup, you may exhibit some of the negative traits associated with this number. There may be a tendency for you to be too exacting and demanding of yourself. In this regard, you may at times sacrifice yourself (or your loved ones) for the welfare of others. In some cases, the over zealous 6 has difficulty distinguishing helping from interfering. You may have difficulty expressing your own individuality, because of involvement with responsibilities and causes. Like all with the Expression of the number 6, it's quite likely that you worry much too much.

Your Soul Urge number is: 11

A Soul Urge number of 11 means:
With the 11 Soul Urge, much of your thinking and interests relate to the abstract, the spiritual, and utopian dreams. You are motivated toward idealistic concepts, and the sharing of your ideas and concepts with humanity. This number is not one that is giving in a material or a practical sense, but rather one who desires to help mankind with a more abstract commodity such as religion, spiritualism, occult studies, or even psychic abilities.

If you possess the positive 11 Soul Urge traits, you have a dream of the perfect world; you are highly idealistic and inspirational. Your inner strength and devotion to your beliefs are extremely strong. You have a very good mind that is especially well equipped to handle the higher, more abstract forms of thought.

If there is an excess of 11 energy in your makeup, you may possess some the negative 11 traits. There is a tendency for the 11 to produce considerable amounts of nervous tension which is bought on by a very high level of awareness. You may be too sensitive and overly emotional. In some cases, these sensitivities and emotions are quite repressed, and this tends to add even more to the sense of nervousness in the makeup.

The strong 11 is not a very practical person because of the extreme idealism; often, there is a degree of self-deception present. There is usually a rather fixed idea of right and wrong held by those showing strong 11 traits, and with this very often is a resulting attitude of inflexibility.

Your Inner Dream number is: 4

An Inner Dream number of 4 means:
You dream of being a very solid citizen that people can depend upon. You strive for organization and predictable order. You want to be recognized as a person with a plan and the discipline to make that plan work like clockwork.

There are 171 days till Christmas 2011!
There are 184 days till Orthodox Christmas!

The moon's phase on the day you were
born was waxing gibbous.

quote of the day >>

"If you love two people at the same time..Choose the second one..Because if you really loved the first one you wouldn't have fallen for the second.."- Johny Depp

rumah idaman

salam

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hai ape kabar?

chat x suma owg?

huyooo~

ari ne 1 ari cik aena wt keje.

bersihkan umah.

mmg exercise abe la kn.

stating kol 10.30am smpai la pkol 7.30pm td bwu stop.

fuh..mmg pnt abe la kn.

nseb bek la dgn bntuan mak n akak kja mnjadi ringan.

heee~

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haa~

dh berckp psl uma sure suma owg ade uma idaman masing2 kn.

cik aena pn ade jgak.

meh2 cika ena ctekn uma idaman cik aena.

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kalo bley cika ena nk umah yg xder la bsr sgt.

dlu cik aena pernah idam nk tgal kt apartment.

tpi pkir2 blek.

xbes la.

sbb

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bumbung owg pnyer lantai pn owg pnyer

xder privasi

haha~

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slain 2 cik aena penah idamkn nk umah 2 tgkt.

tpi.

skng xnk jgak.

incase kalo la jd pape ssh kn nk kua uma

tpi kte mne tawu ajal maut kn suma kuasa ALLAH

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so skng cik aena jus nk umah yg xterlalu bsr.xtelalu kcil.

kalo bley nk uma kmbar 2

cik aena idam nk umah yg xder pagar mcm umah kt luar ngara.

bes je tgok.

kalo pagar pn dgn pokok je.

tpi bla cik aena penah suarakn kt abg.

abg ckp kt malaysia kalo wt umah mcm 2 pkai pncuri pn seronok merompak.

sedang yg ade pagar pn pencuri msok.

yg xder pagar ag la.

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haaa~

berbalik kpada cter umah idaman.

cik aena nk kalo bley kmbar 2 1 tgkt.

so,

kt tpi 2 cik aena ade ruang kalo nk berkebun or wt lanskap ke.

lanskap nk mcm dlm taman.

nk jgak ade air terjun kt luar.

den nk wt bgi teduh bgi redup je.

so xder la rse pns.

dgr byi air terjun 2 tenang cket kn kalo pnt blek keja.

dalam umah pulak cik aena nk mcm umah jepun 2.

masok umah letak kasot kt rak den pkai ksot dlm umah.

den bwu jmpa pntu umah.

kre ade 2 pntu la kt dpn 2.

den msok uma ade ruang tamu yg jus ade kerusi bntuk L ngn 1 ag kerusi beserta meja kecik.

peh2 ade hiasan yg cntek2.

nk ltak frame gmbr cik aena besar pnyer.

kalo cik aena dh kawen cik aena nk ltak gmbr kawen kt dinding.

cik aena nk jgak ltak cermin besar.

owg ckp cermin bsr bley nmpakkan uma jd besar.

den mcm sblah ruang tamu ade ruang ntuk tgok tv.

nk tv yg besar.

mcm panggung wayang.

haha~

den blik cik aena nk 5 blik.

fuyooo~

byk giler.

1 blik utama.

dlm blik 2 nk ade blik air n blik untuk almari pakaian.

blik kedua cik aena nk blik 2 warna pink n dalam blik 2 ade mini library.

so ble bce bku c2 kalo ngntok bley je tertdow.

cik aena nk wrna light pink sbb myb bley wt tenang.

blik ketiga nk wt blik tamu.

if incse ade owg datang bley tdow c2.

hiasan dlm 2 nk bunga2.

sbb nmpak ceria cket.

blik 4 nk wt stor.

bley ltak brg2 yg xnk dlm 2.

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haa~

korg pulak nk umah cena?

pkir2kn.

hee~

i luv polaroid cool cam !

salam

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hee~

entry yg gile kn?

atceli 2 3 ari ne cik aena tgah gle kn cmera yg bley tgkp tros kua gmbr.

suke giler.

sbnrnye dh lme dh nk cmera cm2.

tpi diam je.

tgok2 smlm pnya smlm wk2 jln2 dlm blok ne,

jmpe la sal cmera 2.

fuyo..

mmg xcited abe la kn.

den bka la bbrapa web.

antaranya :-

• http://theclosette.blogspot.com/
• http://www.analoguekaki.com/
• http://riezarchry.com/

huyooo~

mmg bes abe.

sonok2.

den ade beberapa yg mencuit ati cik aena.

antaranya :

polaroid 600 blue

polaroid one step

instax 7s

instax mini 50s

ne polaroid cool cam 600

favourite cik aena

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pikir pnya pikir cika aena amk kptsan nk kmpl duet !

sbb cti ne cik aena xkja.

so kna la kmpl cket2.

tpi xpe.

azam msti kuat !

hee~

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peh2 ptg td wk2 tgah tgok cmera2 ne,

cik aena gtaw la mak ckp nk bli cmera.

mla2 mak ingt cik aena nk bli dslr.

huyooo~

sbbnya akak cik aena penah bsing2 nk bli camera 2.

den cik aena ckp la xnk cmera 2.

(ehem2 dh ade pn cmera 2)

nk cmera yg tgkp tros bley kuar gmbr.

mak ckp kalo gmbr da oke bli la.

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den ptg td cik aena msg ngn ehem2.

sblom ne cik aena penah ckp dh kata cik aena mnt cmera cm2.

den ehem2 ckp nnt da crikn.

tgok2 ne cik aena dh jmpe.

cik aena ckp la ngn ehem2.

den ehem2 tye nk kgsi ke?

cik aena dgn innocent nyer bley tye kgsi ape?

den ehem2 ckp cmera la.ke nk ehem2 je yg blikan?

huyoooo~

jgnla.bnda 2 cik aena yg nk.

ne cik aena nk sshkn ehem2 lak.

(sdgkn slalu je sshkn)

tpi

tpi

tpi

tpi
cik aena ckp.

"kite kongsi la ... "

haha~

kre cik aena sshkn ehem2 jgak.

heee~

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huuuu~

trasa lapo pulak.

oke la ..maw cri mknn.~

daa~

tidak macho lelaki menggunakan duet LADIES

Memang lumrah untuk setiap pasangan keluar dating. Samada menonton wayang, keluar makan, shopping ataupun sekadar berjalan-jalan di tasik ataupun di mana sahaja. Kalau sudah keluar dating itu, memang tidak sah kalau duit di dalam poket tidak dikeluarkan. Tetapi, selalunya hanya lelaki sahaja yang bawa keluar duit mereka. Kononnya, tidak macho kalau guna duit wanita. Betul ke?

Owh...saya amat menolak pandangan seperti ini. [-( Ini kerana dalam berpasangan, memang perlu ada sikap berkongsi dan tiada langsung sikap macho ataupun tidak. Ini termasuklah dari segi berkongsi pendapat, berkongsi perasaan, masalah dan sebagainya. Tetapi perkongsian kali ini dalam konteks, duit. Kenapa anda perlu berkongsi menggunakan duit teman wanita anda? Ok, mari saya berikan anda satu situasi.

Setiap kali keluar dating, asyik lelaki ini sahaja yang mengeluarkan duit untuk teman wanitanya. Pergi makan, duit si lelaki ini. Menonton wayang, duit lelaki ini lagi. Duit minyak kereta atau tambang bas, duit lelaki ini lagi. Semuanya lelaki ini sahaja yang bawa keluar duit. Kalau menara KLCC tu dia yang punya, tidak mengapalah. Tetapi kalau gerai pisang goreng pun dia tidak mampu nak singgah, memang payahlah. #-o

Ditambah lagi kalau dalam sebulan pasangan ini keluar dating setiap hujung minggu, agak-agak anda la, lelaki ini boleh tahan tak dengan perangai teman wanita dia? Lagi-lagi teman wanita dia yang ajak keluar dating. Kalau tidak keluar dating, teman wanita ini merajuk. Bila dah merajuk, berkemungkinan akan berlaku pertengkaran. Itu ini, semua tidak kena. Bila dah berlaku pertengkaran, mula la isu ungkit mengungkit berlaku. Kemudian? Anda sendiri fikir-fikirkan. /:)

Tetapi di sebaliknya, sekiranya anda berkongsi duit dengan teman wanita anda, sudah mesti anda berasa senang untuk keluar dating. Kerana separuh dari perbelanjaan sudah ditanggung oleh teman wanita anda. Kalau tidak separuh pun, sebahagian. Sebagai contoh sekiranya anda keluar dating, duit makan, anda yang belanja. Untuk duit tiket wayang pula, teman wanita anda yang belanja. Dengan ini, kedua-duanya berasa senang dan gembira.

Kalau tidak pun, anda buat la selang seli. Minggu ini keluar makan, anda yang belanja. Minggu depan keluar makan, si dia pula yang belanja. Tetapi jangan la anda "tikam" pasangan anda. Jangan la bila turn dia yang belanja, anda ajak dia pergi makan dekat tempat-tempat yang mahal. Tempat-tempat yang ekslusif. Memang berpeluh la kawan tu nak membayarnya. Kasihani la dia. Anda sayang dia kan? Bukan duit die kan? ;))

Jadi, adakah lelaki tidak macho sekiranya lelaki menggunakan duit wanita? Anda tanyalah diri anda sendiri. Kepada yang lelaki, anda ingin menunjuk macho atau diri anda sendiri yang akan sengsara. Semuanya terpulang kepada anda.

Yang penting, anda jujur pada diri dan pasangan anda. Jika tidak mampu, katakan tidak. Jangan biarkan ia melarat.

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